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5 Things Your Man Can Teach You About Sex
By Laura Snyder
As a guy friend once pointed out to me, "Inherent female sexual prowess is a myth." He's right. Perhaps it's because we tend to hold a lot of the sexual power in relationships - dictating the when and where and how often - that we think we must also be the experts on how it's done.
We are wrong.
Men actually have plenty to teach us about sex, if we'd just put down our issues of Cosmo long enough to notice. Read on for the top five lessons on lust you can learn from your guy.
Say Yes More Often
Being sexy isn't something you trot out once or twice a week for 20 minutes, it's a round-the-clock attitude. That means cutting out the tired excuses, too. Of all the things we motivate ourselves to do every day - work, the gym, laundry, whatever - isn't sex worth being one of them? Once your start putting off passion, it becomes habit, so make sure you're infusing your daily routine with plenty of randy thoughts.
Relaaaax
Getting all worked up and stressed out about having sex makes about as much sense as worrying you're not eating your chocolate cake right. Men tend not to have strict rules about their romps in the sack that women do -- no certain places are off limits to touching, there's no particular position he refuses to try because it makes him look fat. Take a lesson from him and let go a little.
Be In the Moment
No man is mentally composing the grocery list or running through tomorrow's to-do list when you're on top of him. Maybe it's because he's not particularly helpful around the house, but it's probably just because he's better at being in the moment than you are. Clear your mind of nagging worries and distractions and you'll clear the way for mind-blowing sex.
Be More Aggressive
Don't just lie there, manhandle that man! Gentle caresses and tender kisses may seem more romantic, but don't underestimate the power of your animalistic side. He's strong enough to take a few nails scratched down his back or nibbles to his neck.
Always Assume Satisfaction
Don't take a cross-your-fingers approach to climaxing. Men assume they'll reach their pleasure peak, so why shouldn't you? Call it self-fulfilling prophecy, but if you get under the covers believing sexual nirvana is inevitable, that faith - along with you actively doing whatever you need to do to make it happen - will get you there